I hadn’t erased my player mentality […] “When I started dating my wife, I thought that life would take on a new direction. In the lifestyle I lived before, I got involved in many futile relationships.
But things didn’t get any better when I got married.
There are a number of players out there (both men and women). If you are disrespected or the person continues to hurt you; choose to love yourself enough and walk away. If you allow someone to disrespect you, then you can expect for them to disrespect you.
But the best way to avoid being played is to build up your self-esteem. Remember: No one can do anything to you unless you allow them.
And not until he decides to grow up and stop playing childish games, he will continue to play.
There are a few telltale signs to let you know you are dealing with a player: The way you handle a player is not to hate the player, learn the game.
By nature, a man is a hunter and playing is a part of that hunter mentality.
But at the end of the day, a player plays because he can.
The main focus of this dialogue was to help women recognize when they are being played and understand the psychology behind the game. Players play for a number of reasons, but it boils down to their own insecurities.
Being a player allows a man to have bragging rights; to put another notch on his belt of women he’s seduced; to gain validation; act out issues, which stem from his childhood, and the list goes on.